The image in my mind...

To my chagrin, I woke up and found myself ,trapped on a remote, desolated island, surrounded by a boundless sea of water ,whose depth is seemingly unfathomable ....loooking around , I see no hope of ever escaping...I´m stuck in the middle of nowhere.... .Fear starts enveloping my entire body sending shivers down my spine..I´m beginning to feel this qualmy sense of danger enter my bosom and beads of perspirations start to bud and slip..... What do I do??The more I ponder about this million dollar question, the more complex it gets..., Should I attempt to escape and cross to the other side, more obstacles and troubles might come my way... and I probably end up in a situation that is even WORSE. .....A classic example of Catch 22 indeed, so to speak.. ...... So, I am left with no choice but `to feel helpless´´.... the next best words I can think of to describe this gruesome situation..

But then my inner voice starts kicking in, reminding me that ..`` every cloud has a silver lining´´.
As I look up at the bright azure sky , a pang of hope somehow hits me....Birds hovering and flying in different directions are indeed a sight to behold, providing me with a source of relief and joy in the face of danger and tribulations.... ``I must be strong and hopeful´´, as I continue to remind myself but then again, fear still dwells inside me, burstign in and out from time to time.....I wonder when it will end??

LIGHTS, CAMERA , ACTION MOVIES

Here are my all -time favorite action movies that you might have missed, but are definitely worth your time to seek out.

Scarface -  Al Pacino and Michelle Pfeiper



Face Off  - John Travolta and Nicholas Cage

Boondock Saints - Willem Dafoe, Sean Patrick Connery & Norman Reedus

Charlie´s Angels - Lucy Liu, Cameron Diaz and Drew Barrymoore

Heat -  Al Pacino and Robert De Niro


The Recruit -  Collin Farrel & Al Pacino


The Rock - Sean Connery and Nicolas Cage


The Mask  of Zorro -  Antonio Banderas and Catherine Zeta Jones


The Negotiator -  Kevin Spacey and Samuel Jacson



The Punisher - Thomas Jane and John Travolta

How to wipe out negative thoughts...

``Faith can move a mountain´´  ----This  simply  tells us   how the power of belief   can bring us  momentous  success in life. There is nothing mystical or magical about it. It  is  just the  thermostat  that regulates what we accomplish in life.We are a by-product of our own thoughts.We  can manifest into reality what we envision ourselves  to be  through the way we think. Bear in mind that ´´ Self Doubt´´ is our mortal enemy . It is what  holds us back and prevents us from manifesting our dreams into reality. In order for us to go places , we should always exhibit the   `` I can ´´ attitude and  harness the power of belief. Believe BIG and everything  will fall into place.

However,  It is inevitable that we experience setbacks at times, which can cause  depression and unhappiness.Some of us have the tendency to self destruct  and  lose motivation to carry on once  we get frustrated.. Not to mention,  we end up losing  faith in ourselves and then endless negative thoughts start creeping in.But there is no point of aggravating the situation. Instead of sitting around and moping about them day in and day out, we should  try to shift our mindset towards something positive  instead, so we could get ourselves back on track and carry on. I couldn´t help but recall  what I read from  some  self help book a few months  ago. According to the book, our mind is a ``thought factory´´. It´s a busy factory producing countless thoughts every single day. Production in our thought factory  is under the supervision of two foremen, Mr Triumph and Mr. Defeat. Mr. Triumph is responsible for producing positive thoughts and gives us the reasons why we can,  and why we are qualified. Whereas, Mr. Defeat is the one in charge of producing the negative thoughts and expert in providing us reasons why we can´t and why we´re inadequate.His expertise is the ``why we will fail´´ chain of thoughts.Both of them are immensely obedient.They snap to attention immediately.A positive signal will summon Mr. Triump and a negative signal will bring Mr. Defeat forward.The more work you give either of them, the stronger he becomes.If Mr Defeat is given more work, he takes up more space in our minds. Eventually, he will take over the entire thought manufacturing division and virtually all thought will be of a negative nature.The wise thing to do is to boot out Mr. Defeat.This paradigm  brings us into conclusion that positive thoughts attract positive chain of events and negative thouhts attract negative circumstances..One classic example is  a sales man who always dreads not  reaching his sales quota and  every single day,  he is worried about  losing his clients to the company´s competitors.He dwells  on the negative scenarios so much  that he attracts a negative chain of events.Before he knows it, he starts losing his   clients and  eventually fails to reach the sales target.Instead of focusing on  his  positive strengths as a salesperson, he is  so preoccupied with negative thoughts that he couln´t perform effectively. In same fashion,  it is important for each  one of us to think positively,instead of  entertaining negative thoughts all the time. Otherwise, we will get bogged down  with woes and worries and have nowhere to go but a path of negativities.In order to avoid this, negative thoughts should be totally wiped out.  Here are some proven  techniques I would like to share with you on how to do so once they start popping  in..

1.Try to meditate every day.. Meditation helps  to  relax your minds   and purge all the negative thoughts..

2...Think of any good thoughts  You may   recall any good memory from the past  or  think of anything that puts a smile on your face.This could be a  toddler ,  your crush  or  even your pets. This technique really helps a lot to shift your  mindset  everytime frustration turns its ugly head..

3 Engage  in any activity. One effective way  to break free from negative thoughts is   to lose yourself  in any  activity, such as learning  new hobbies, participating in a sports festival , gardening etc.

4.Think of   any famous  personality whose achievements inspire you a lot and always tell yourself  `` If they can, why can´t I´´ .

5.Do positive affirmations everyday.They  prove to be of great help in conquering your fears and  doubts and really work wonders in sending positive signals to your subconcious minds.Remember subconscious minds can be programmed to achieve your desired result. By controlling the inputs or thoughts of the subconscious, you can control your accomplishments.

Reality bites

Reality bites ....I am like a flightless bird with broken wings
wishing  to fly beyond the horizon  with you, but to no avail...
As Cliche as it may sound, I am an open wound  you left behind,
taking ages to heal...
exposed to more complications´,it seems incurable...
even the most potent cure  won´t do,..
the  demise  of once beautiful memory  seems irreversible ..
it takes only a miracle to bring it to life again..
Call it   insanity , but I  remain your inseperable shadow
trailing behind every inch of you...
like a gust of wind , whispering into your soul,
and trying to reawake your senses,
hoping   those ``sparks ´´ would return ...
in my loneliness,, I  unlock the memory box bearing all
the sweet nothings of the past .. Gazing inside fills my silence with tears..
Just Can´t  seem to  find a way to lock its thousand locks and cast it into the fire of oblivion...
As Melancholy ensues ...dry brittle leaves , fall to the ground
carried by the  swift currents into different directions,
storm clouds loom
 and darkness  creeping in---
-Such is also my fate...riding on the winds of time and braving through  this darkness

Dresses that never go out of style

Dresses are  essential  components of  every woman´s wardrobe.They create the basis for a complete outfit with the right accessories in one garment, and  not to mention, they add  feminine flair  to a  woman´s appearance. Many women  love the idea of dressing up no matter what the occasion is. Whether they are opting for day or party dresses,  they should bear in mind that they will never go wrong with chic and classic styles--,.In this blog,  I have chosen the  Top five dreses that  never go out of style:

Short Tube  Dresses

These are popular  among many women, regardless of their height and sizes.They are  gorgeous and very feminine , especially when complemented with the right accessories..









Off - shoulder Dresses

Ideal for those women who want  to look sexy , but have inhibitions to wear sexy dresses.. Simple yet elegant...








Haltered dresses

Whether short or long, this style is `´reminiscent´´ of   a femme fatale look..








One -  shoulder dresses

The asymmetrical flow of a one-shoulder dress complements most all figure types.Whether loose and flowing or  fitted, one shoulder dresses  look gorgeous and feminine..





Spaghetti - strapped dresses

Simple yet stunning, these dresses  should be in every woman´s wardrobe. They  simply bring
out the sexiness and feminity  in every woman.






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